没有你上网的日子，第43天，雨：

今天，我想和大家分享一个故事，一个让我印象深刻的故事……

话说在2006年里，有一位男孩他已经上了中五，也就是中学生涯的最后一年。陪伴这位男孩的同窗，当然也多不胜数，其中有的是他最要好的朋友。他们是知己，而且经过了六年的考验，然后联系彼此的可是多么珍贵的友谊啊！就在2004年开始，网上开始流行部落格。每一个人为了跟随这个潮流，也纷纷地开通了自己的部落格。当然，那男孩也不例外。他的第一个部落格是在交友网络，Friendster里的部落格。当时的他，很高兴拥有了部落格，而且还在那个部落格里放了不少有趣的东西，夹杂着和他的好朋友的欢乐时光。直到了2006年，这位男孩在Blogspot里开了另外一个部落格。这个时候，他将部落格当成是他的心灵寄托。他放上了他自己创作的歌曲，然后记录了生活上的点点滴滴。

最后一年的中学生涯每一个人都很珍惜。谁知，男孩的好知己竟然作了一些让他觉得很难受的事情。男孩暗恋着一位女生，可男孩的知己却一次又一次骗了男孩和其他的男性朋友。如何骗法？有几次的派对，男孩知道暗恋的女生都有出席，可是男孩的知己却瞒着其他男性朋友包括他，不让他们参加。男孩知道后，便将这些东西都放在部落格上。谁知，写在部落格上的东西，换来的可是被其他女性朋友谩骂的下场。起初的男孩不以为然，因为他深信部落格是用来抒发自己内心世界的一个小站。就在同年的最后一天，当大家都准备迎接新年的时候，男孩和其他的朋友再一次不被邀请参加。但是他们已经看开，所以他们便驾车到一些地方自个儿庆祝。男孩的知己呢？当然就是和同年的女生一起庆祝咯！当然，那个时候大家都毕了业……但是男孩知己的低在其他同性朋友的眼里已经“花”了……

在2007年的第一天，男孩在其部落格上将前一天晚上的东西都写上来。但是，他那一天的文章，想不到却开始改变了他、改变了他对部落格的看法。当他在放上那一天的文章后，他受到了不少朋友的攻击。这个攻击维持了一个星期，直到在他新的生活（男孩就要去开始他的学院生涯）的前几天，他还是一样被攻击。在种种的压力下，男孩将部落格的文章都换上了同一个内容，那就是“没话好说……再见！”男孩甚至在其最后一个帖子里放上了关闭部落格的通告，从此不再对部落格有任何的执着……男孩对这一件事一直耿耿于怀，心里常想：部落格不是让人家写下自己的感受和生活的点滴的吗？但是，没有人给予他任何的答复……直到了他在学院里遇上了另一位女生……

男孩对这位女生很有好感，但是一直都没有认识她的机会。男孩将这个事情告诉了身边的一些朋友，但他们都不以为意。直到了2007年的6月，男孩终于有机会认识了这位女生。他开始了和这位女生的第一次MSN。谁知，就因为一时冲动，男孩将他和女生的关系搞僵了。男孩很后悔，而且每一个晚上都很期待女生的上网，因为他很想和女生聊天。但是，他的等待是漫漫长夜的，无限的……就这样，男孩开始了他2007年里的第一个部落格。男孩一直和身边的朋友分享他的事情，其中，他有一位很好的兄弟很支持他，而且还帮了男孩不少。男孩对这他这位兄弟心里一直存在无限的感激，但他不懂要如何报答他……就因为这位兄弟的恩，每当有人在男孩的面前说关于这位兄弟的事情的时候，男孩都会躲开话题，不想做人任何对这位兄弟有伤害的事情……

就在2007年7月的某一天里，男孩在中学的知己告诉了他一些东西。起初，一听后，男孩感觉十分高兴。那些东西都是男孩一直梦寐以求的，自然而然地，男孩的心一直都是开着的。但是，高兴的背后，当一切都冷静下来后，男孩开始胡思乱想了。他在想，怎么这么好的东西会突然降临，然后他开始怀疑知己所说的都是假的。他认为那些东西都是知己自己编出来的，但是他不追问。他教唆自己要保持平常心，而且也将这些事情写在部落格上，谁知，这么一写却开始考验了这位男孩……

在男孩写上了部落格后，他在学院的好兄弟看到了。不巧的是，这位好兄弟也告诉了男孩一些让男孩很高兴的东西。就这样，好兄弟误会了男孩，还生了男孩的气。男孩很无奈，可是他却没有解释的机会。一直到了2007年7月28号晚上……

男孩心里一直在想，到底写部落格的用意是什么？是抒发感情？是记录生活点滴？还是得罪朋友？男孩开始迷惑，他一直都不懂，为什么他写了三次的部落格，有两次都是得罪朋友的……难道这是注定的吗……？男孩不懂……

男孩的三个部落格：
http://art_creator.blogs.friendster.com/blog/
http://artcreator89.blogspot.com
http://waiting4u2on9.blogspot.com

大家对这个故事有什么看法呢？写部落格到底又是为了什么呢？无可否认，我写部落格的用意是要让“她”知道我在等她，你们呢？

Day Without You Online, Day 43, Rainy:

Today, I want to share a story with all of you, a story that give me a deep impression...

In year 2006, there was a boy who studied form 5, which last year of his secondary school. There were a lot of friends accompanied the boy which included his best friend. They were very close friend, and the difficulties of six years and the relationship was very precious! In the meantime, blog was started to be one of the trend in year 2004. Everyone was creating their own blog. The boy did the same too. His first blog was created using the blog system in Friendster. He was very happy after he created the blog and placed lots of interesting stuffs into the blog, mixing the happy hour he spent with his friends. Until 2006, the boy had created another blog in Blogspot. At this time, the blog was the boy's mind reposing place. He attached his own composed song, and recorded down every details of his life.

Everybody was very treasured their last year of secondary school's life. Who knows, the boy's best friend did something that the boy was hard to be accepted. The boy was having an unrequited loves to a girl, however, the boy's best friend did make a lie to the boy again and again. How was the lie? There was several parties held, and the boy knew the girl was there, but the boy's best friend hided the parties from all the male's friend included the boy, not to let them took part. The boy knew everything, and he written down everything on the blog. Who knows, everything written down came with the scolding of other female's friends. The boy was not bother at the beginning, in fact he believed that blog was a stop that let express his own feeling and world. On the last day of the same year, when everybody was getting ready to celebrate new year, the boy and his friends were not invited to the part. However, they were not concerned with that, thus they drove to a particular place to celebrate themselves. How about the boy's friend? Of course he celebrated with other female friends! In addition, all of them were graduated, but the boy's best friend had left a bad impression to the other male friends...

On the first day of 2007. the boy written down everything happened during the previous day. However, the blog that he written that day had changed the boy, and his point of view about blog. When he posted up the blog, he was attacked by several friends. This action had continued for one week, until the several day before his new life came to him (the life which the boy was going to study), the attack still didn't stop. The boy decided to change every contents on his blog into "Nothing to be said... Bye!" under the pressure. He even posted the blog closing notice on his last thread of the blog, and didn't concern about blog anymore... The boy was very take to his heart, and always think: Blog is to let people written their feeling and the life, is it? Anyway, no one could answer him... Until the boy met another girl in his college...

The boy was having a favourable impression to the girl, but he did not have any chances to know her. The boy told this thing to his friends, but they didn't bother about it. Until the June of 2007, the boy finally knew the girl. He started his first MSN with the girl. Who knows, just because of impulsion, the boy had made the relationship became stiff. The boy was very regret, and anticipated the girl to online every night, as he wanted to chat with the girl. However, his wait was endless... Following by that, the boy started his 2007 first blog. The boy always share his stuffs with his friends, among all that, there was a very good pal who supported him, and helped him a lot. The boy felt thankful to the best pal always, but he couldn't make any repayment to the pal... Just because of the graciousness, whenever there was the talk of his best pal, the boy will hide from the topic, just not to do anything that harm his pal and their relationship...

On one of the day in July of 2007, the boy's best friend during the secondary school told him something. At the beginning, the boy was very happy for what his best friend told him. Those were the things that the boy always prefer, and naturally, the boy was very delighted. However, behind of the happiness, when everything was calmed, the boy started to think. He was thinking, impossible a good thing suddenly approached, and started to be curious for what his best friend told. He thought that that everything was created by his best friend own self, but he didn't ask for more. He pursued himself to be peace of mind, and written everything on his blog, who knows, the blog was started to test the boy...

After the boy posted up the blog, his best pal in college saw the thread. At the same time, the best pal too tell him something that delightful the boy. And thus, the best pal was misunderstood the boy, and angry with him. The boy didn't know what to do, and didn't have the chance to explain everything. Until 28th night of July, 2007...

The boy keep thinking, what is the purpose of having a blog? Is an expression? Or record every details of life? Or offend the friends? The boy confuses, and he can't make himself understand, why he has written the blog for 3 times, but tho of them are offending his friends... Is this is doomed...? The boy doesn't know...

The boy's three blogs:
http://art_creator.blogs.friendster.com/blog/
http://artcreator89.blogspot.com
http://waiting4u2on9.blogspot.com

Ladies and gentlemen, what you think about the story? What is the purpose of writing a blog? Does not have deny that I write the blog to let "her" knows that I'm waiting for her, how about you?