没有你上网的日子，第40天，雨：

唉……原本可以是轻松的一天，因为一些事情就让我整个人静了下来……

今晚的我其实蛮得空的。原本我也打算多说一些的，不过基于一些立场，所以我还是觉得放在心里里会比较好。“有些时候，有些东西，该说的话就说，不该说的话，说出来就只会让关系闹得更僵……”这个是我写了33篇的部落格后所理解到的东西。无论如何，有些东西，我始终还是觉得不吐不快！

到底一个人要如何才能够改掉那些所谓的“脾气”动作，或难听一点就是“幼稚”这种坏习惯呢？有的人会为了一时之气然后就对你老板着脸，给你脸色看。以前的我也会这样，但是因为身边朋友的劝说，所以挨了那么久，我始终也有了改变。那些因为一时的脾气，或对某个人不顺眼的时候而抱怨、瞪眼、翻白眼的动作，在别人眼里只会显得是多么的幼稚！但他们却不以为然！不以为然还不紧要，反而要对你有厌恶的动作或对你发脾气抑或不服输然后坚持抱着自己的尊严的才可悲啊！！！以前的我是那种人，现在的我却要面对这种人啊！

我有一个朋友，他连到底要如何分辨一位朋友是真心已否也不懂。当然，不是每个人包括我在内也不懂。但是，有的时候，一些动作，一些肢体语言，一些谈话就可以轻易辨认那位朋友是否是真心的。有的人会认为在他面前，只要顺他意、和他的节奏“拍”得很好，那这位朋友就一定是自己的知己了，但有谁知道，这些人台前幕后可会是双面人呢；有的人会对那些敢于批评他、或在他面前做一些会让他觉得不好受的事情，那他就会认定这些人一定是自己的敌人、或开始用异眼来对待他们，但有谁知道，其实这班人就是在救着他啊！

应该都听过“良药苦口利于病，忠言逆耳利于行”这句名言吧！大家都知道这句话，可却偏偏要逃避里面的意思啊！“忠言逆耳利于行”说明的就是不中听的话，虽然听进耳里很不好受，但这些却偏偏是改变你们行为思想的药啊！唉……无论如何，在这个世界上，还是存在着那些喜欢听好话人，而且还永远不知道自己的行为已经让人忍到了一个极限……

Day Without You Online, Day 40, Rainy:

Haiz... Today should be a happy day, however, something happened and caused me down...

Tonight is quite free. I planned to talk more, in fact because of some standpoint, thus I think is better that I keep it. "Sometimes, something should be told then continue, something shouldn't then don't or once speak out, then the situation will become stiff..." This is the thing that I understand after 33 posts I have written. Anyway, there's a thing I think I still need to speak it out!

How a person can throughout change his "emotional" action, or also known as "childish" this type of bad habit? Sometimes a person can because of a small thing then have a weird face to you or angry to you. I used to be like that, but because of the friends around me which keep giving advices to me, I changed finally. Those people who just because for a while temperament, then not pleasing to the eyes, or complaint or turns the supercilious look, which the action that seems to be very childish to other people's eye! However, they don't know about it. Fine if they don't know, but the pitiful one is if they are persist their dignity, or angry with you, or don't even concede!!! I was that kind of person, and now I need to face this kind of person!

I have a friend who doesn't know how to differentiate whether a friend is true friend or not. And of course, not everyone including myself know how to do it. However, sometimes, some movement, some body language, some talk can easily distinct whether they are sincere or not. Sometimes a person will think that those who act good, follow his will, or have nice "tempo" or can mix easily together, then this is a true friend, but who knows this kind of person might be two faces in front or behind the stage; sometimes a person thought that those who always dare to make comment on him, or do something that make that person feel uncomfortable, then the person will think that they should be his/her enemy, and started to use different way or unusual way to treat them, in fact, these people are trying to help the person!

Should be listened before about "Good medicine tastes bitter but it favors the sickness, honest talk is offensive but it corrects the attitude" this sentence! Everyone knows this sentence, but they still try to evade from the meaning! "Honest talk is offensive but it corrects the attitude" explains that sentences that although doesn't pleasant to the ear, yet it is the medicine that cure our incorrect mind and attitude! Haiz... Anyway, there are still people in this world who prefers the nice sentence, and don't know that their attitude has already let other people endures until a certain limit...